Very aha/encouraging moment after reading life study application bible this am on proverbs 29:15
"The rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to himself disgraces his mother."
The lsab says "Parents of young children often weary of disciplining them. They feel like all they do is nag, scold, and punish (oh YES!!!) When you're tempted to give up and let your children do what they want, or when you've ruined your relationship with them (oh yes :( ) remember - kind, firm (opposite of what I do) correction helps them learn, and learning makes them wise. Consistent, loving discipline will ultimately teach them to discipline themselves (amen!!!).
Need to remember this many, many times a day. Especially with Trey as he is relentless in continuing to verbally fight in very loud words and expressions what he want ax